Okay so this is what i've gathered by watching the Oprah Show this afternoon.

"People who are Chronic Complainers have fear of happiness. They're are afraid of the 'price' and that happiness comes with a cost. So they rather be 'okay' and still complain. These people need to learn that you can have happiness and that it can last."

"the pursuit is happiness is within you. The physical world doesn't exist. It's what you believe that makes you perceive the world."

Heh. So true.

I mean. At the end of the day, whining gets really exhausting. Both for the listener and those who whine.