Wednesday, January 05, 2005

'He's Just Not THAT Into You!'

When will we ever learn? If a guys doesn't call you, or if he says hes 'not ready' to take the relationship to the next level, and gives you lame ass excuses why he didn't keep in touch with you, it means, HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!...However, i think this applies to both genders. Yes, and the Confused, like Ishwar.

I saw the Oprah Winfrey Show, and she had this guy who wrote a book about dating/relationships tips, and all the 'truth' behind all those crappy excuses and what does a guy REALLY mean, when he says something. And, man... Does the truth hurt? Hell, yes. There were about half a dozen of women who came on that show had these similar problems, just in different forms. One woman had this guy text messaging her, saying all the most beautiful things she could ever imagine, but he NEVER calls, or even asks her out. She was just waiting and waiting, and hoping for him to call her and ask her out or somthing, but he never did. So then, the guy on that show who wrote that book, just told her this :

'He's Just not THAT into you'

Ouch, did that hurt? well, duh. But that was so true. So then them guys on the show confessed... They just don't wanna 'hurt' women's feelings....bacause they'd rather tell a simple lie, than saying the truth (which would be that nasty 6 letter word line) and having to answer all the OTHER questions and they just don't wanna see them ladies' tears... Not because they feel sorry...I think its because they feel lazy, and sick to their stomachs. Whatever, dudes.

Oh god, but it was funny, watching all these women asking for oppinions like 'what do you think? he sent me up to my apartment, but he still doesn't wanna come up for tea'.... Oh god. Wake up, ladies. Like what Oprah said, You know what you want...If you can't get what you want, Move on! Right on, sistah!

So... Don't waste your time waiting and hoping for the guy to come and call you when he says he will, but in the end doesn't. Yes, its painful, when you like the person, but they don't like you back...But its worst when u wait and be hopeful for things that ain't gonna happen...

Yeah! Now we know...You nasty peep squeeks. Tell, lies to shut us up.
You guys just wait.

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